Why?

Why can't life be less complicated? Even a little less complicated would help. why can't we just have clear feelings about everything, not half this or one third that? Either love or not love. either like entirely or completely dislike. But no, of course life is not easy, it doesn't cut us any slack, doesn't spare us of any complications. I have so many questions that go unanswered, I think I'd run out of space even here. But I'll go ahead n get some off my chest anyway...why do men cheat? Why do i have to cook all the time? Why do i hate having to plan a meal and cook it? Why do i relate that to sex? Why can't I just get a job and start moving on in life? What am I afraid of? Why can't I learn to just not give a fuck?.......anybody have an answer...just one....anybody?